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Begin Again, 2022
An aspect of meditation has been bugging me for years. I often felt like I was a failure when my mind would stray AGAIN. I found myself...

Louise Carnachan
Jan 3, 20222 min read


The Light Will Return
It’s Winter Solstice and the darkest days of the northern hemisphere. In the Pacific Northwest it’s gray and rainy, sometimes foggy. It...

Louise Carnachan
Dec 21, 20212 min read


Difficult People—Why Do They Behave That Way?
Ah, the holidays 2021. You’ve got obligations, work, family, and the decisions whether to socialize as Covid continues. Welcome to a...

Louise Carnachan
Dec 7, 20212 min read


Thanks Giving
The US celebrates Thanksgiving this week. The food, well…and for those who are into football, it’s truly hog heaven. Regardless of how...

Louise Carnachan
Nov 23, 20213 min read


Is it Possible to be Too Empathetic?
Empathy can be defined as walking in someone else’s shoes, really feeling their suffering. Certain professions attract empaths:...

Louise Carnachan
Nov 9, 20214 min read


Strategies When Things Go Wrong
The Olympic Games are about as high pressure as you get for an athlete or a team.You’d think a silver medalist would be happier with...

Louise Carnachan
Oct 26, 20212 min read


Why a Pay Increase Doesn't Create Happiness for Long
The 1960s psychologist Fredrick Hertzberg wrote One More Time, How Do You Motivate Employees. His cutting-edge premise of the time was...

Louise Carnachan
Oct 12, 20213 min read


Are You on a Team? Make Everyone Look Good
Off Limits (my former improv troupe) held a reunion in August. Three of us in person, three on Zoom. Our last photo was from 2014. Seven...

Louise Carnachan
Sep 28, 20213 min read


Self-soothing
Early in my career, a colleague who’d had enough of my whining asked if I’d ever considered suffering in silence. The answer was, “No.”...

Louise Carnachan
Sep 14, 20213 min read


It's Hard to Stray from the Herd
I heard Dobie Gray’s version of “The In Crowd” on an oldies station a few days ago. Great song. I love the refrain, “I don’t care where...

Louise Carnachan
Aug 31, 20212 min read


Communicating Change- Rapidly!
For my birthday, my dear friend from Seattle joined me on a jet boat excursion up the Willamette River. It was so darn much fun! The...

Louise Carnachan
Aug 17, 20212 min read


It's About Time
I sent email to an institution that shall remain unnamed. I offered something of value and asked with which department I should...

Louise Carnachan
Aug 3, 20212 min read


Conversational Misfires
Dining on the deck on a warm evening, my guest said, “I think a lot of us have lost our social skills during the pandemic.” I concur....

Louise Carnachan
Jul 20, 20212 min read


Do I Really Need This?
Recently I was gifted two beautiful photographic art pieces. Looking for wall space, I noticed an inherited painting stuck in a corner...

Louise Carnachan
Jul 6, 20212 min read


Reading the Signs
About a month ago, I took a road trip for five days. It's been so long, I wasn't sure if my car would balk at extended driving. I spent...

Louise Carnachan
Jun 22, 20212 min read


Lightening Up!
“What a long, strange trip it’s been.” The Grateful Dead In the Pacific Northwest, we’re moving toward the glory days when daylight...

Louise Carnachan
Jun 10, 20212 min read


Getting Out
Much has been written about people departing “toxic religions.” These organizations have similarities to political or religious cults run...

Louise Carnachan
May 18, 20214 min read


How Do Reasonable, Rational People Get Sucked In?
Steven Hassan, author of The Cult of Trump, writes about his own recruitment into the Unification Church (aka the Moonies). Two young...

Louise Carnachan
May 4, 20214 min read


Cult Status
Merriam-Webster Dictionary lists the definitions of “cult” in this order: 1. a religion regarded as unorthodox or spurious 2. great...

Louise Carnachan
Mar 30, 20213 min read


How to Handle Unfair Criticism
Guest blogger, Vincentia Schroeter, PhD, is a somatic psychotherapist and the author of Tilt: Seeking Balance in Troubled Times (release...
Vincentia Schroeter
Mar 15, 20214 min read
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